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How to Show Your Gratitude to Your Man
If there's one thing men hate, it's that women who are spoiled, unappreciative, and ungrateful, women who act like a man's calls, gifts, thoughtfulness, and presence in their lives are no big deal. Why would an emotionally healthy man want to spend his life with you if you act like nothing he does is ever quite good enough? He wouldn't! That's why you should...
• Thank him for his acts of kindness and consideration. If he goes out of his way to plan an evening filled with specific activities he knows you enjoy, thank him for being so thoughtful. If he calls you to wish you good luck on an exam, or in making a presentation at work, thank him for thinking of you.
• Thank him for what he gives you materially and emotionally. If he takes you to a concert or a movie, thank him for making the plans and inviting you to be his guest. If he brings you flowers, thank him genuinely for them, and put them in your nicest vase in a prominent spot. If he shares his feelings with you, thank him for being so open.
• Express your gratitude by reciprocating with kindness and consideration of your own. If he's gone out of his way several times to take you to your favorite activities on dates, plan a surprise for him featuring something you know he enjoys. If he has been very supportive of your career goals and called you at work to give you encouragement, call him to wish him good luck on an important day.
If you're like most women, you love it when a man appreciates everything about you, from the smallest detail of your outfit to the way you make him feel. And you love it when he doesn't take you for granted and instead, shares his gratitude for all you do for him. On the contrary, there's nothing worse than a selfish, spoiled, narcissistic man who thinks your job is to be his cook, his maid, his cheering squad, and his on-call-24-hours-a-day sex toy, yet who never says thank you and makes you feel you're never doing it quite right. So, always remind yourself to treat a man as you'd have him treat you.
The right man for you will love and respect you for being generous emotionally, and he'll be emotionally generous back. The right man for you will think to himself, "That is the kind of warm, giving woman I'd want to be married to. That's the kind of caring, sensitive person who would make a great wife and mother someday."